C'mon Dads

Tell us about your experiences during the births of your wee folk. I've spoken to my partner extensively about his perspective and feelings, and as time goes by how it changes. I'd like to hear from other support partners

Just bumping.

Geez fellas! your response is overwhelming!

tell him I'll start hassling him publicly on face book if he doesn't write something. And he can kiss my bogan gifts good bye!!!

In brief;
I suppose my sons birth for me was frightening and frustrating! I felt the whole experience was full of unknowns and uncontrollable situations ! I feel like I did the best I could with the information that I was aware of at that time. im dissoppointed in myself in the fact i was so gullable to the whole hospital institution and they way i handled going back to work afterwards. I had complete faith in the hospital to do what was right for both my wife and son . and not really knowing anything different why shouldnt I?(i dont mean this to sound diffencive just personally factual!!)
(Hindsite would be a great thing if some how we could tap into it before hand!!)